Warning: The State of Affairs of Women- Why Are You Broken For?

I think this poem is really powerful and much-needed for those women that are broken and needing a smile to cross their face. It is known that women go through alot of things in their daily-lives and sometimes from these experiences they are broken. However, it should be known that these women are indeed essential to the operation of this world and they hold importance in our daily-lives. They are more than “a breeder or a hand-me down or a leg-stand, but she is the backbone of a family and relentless and she never gives up”. This is important to understand as we deal with the women in our lives. Also, “do not romanticize her or write her a love-poem, but she is a poem on the brink of breaking in your eye. She is your queen and you are her king. You are apart of her queendom”. It’s important that we take what Islam has taught and to actually apply it in our lives. Many times we hear the same rhetoric from Muslim-men and women that “Islam liberated the woman,” but what does this mean if women are still being enslaved by backward-ideologies and oppressive regimes? Let’s put what we learn into action. It’s not good enough to take a line out of your pocket and to think it’s going to make everything okay when women are struggling and broken behind these lies that we tell. Yes, Islam liberated the woman but have you? Are you treating other women in a way that is appropriate? Are you dealing with your mother, daughter, niece, and aunt in a way that praises her “queen-ness”? We should remember that the prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) never laid a finger on a female. He never slapped his wife(s) for not making him dinner. He never took sex from his wife(s) because he felt as if he owned her body. He never prevented his wife(s) from gaining knowledge because he felt that knowledge was only for men. He never told his wife(s) to stay quiet because women should know their opinions aren’t needed.

So, what are we doing? Why are so many women broken? Bloody? Dead? Why are we slaying our fellow sisters across the world? Why aren’t we respecting them? Why are we making them into second-class citizens? What’s your problem? Where’s the teachings of Islam? Islam has never taught you to abuse/sexually assault/violate/ or oppress other woman or the women you interact with on a daily-basis. Remember that we are all one. We are all trying to stay above water, but more importantly that we will all stand before Allah and will be told to “iqra”- to read our book of deeds. So, stop feeling as if you are entitled to break the spirit of a woman. No matter if you are a woman yourself or if you are a man. You have no right to break a person’s spirit because she bleeds the same blood as you and we are all heart-beats and breath breathing.

However, my fellow woman/sister/mother/aunt/niece/grandmother remember that you are more than broken-hearts and broken-spirits but you are powerful. You are experiences lived and gone-through that only you know about. You may be tired, but you are not alone. We are all going through the battles of this world. We are very much real. And our experiences are real. So, remember I am always thinking about you even if the whole world has drugged and drenched you in tears and sweat.


2 thoughts on “Warning: The State of Affairs of Women- Why Are You Broken For?

  1. Many, both men and women are broken. We are not born a certain way. Life can sometimes make us a certain way. But their comes a time when each one of us needs to realize that our choices made us a certain way. Many of the our struggles could have been avoided had we taken the time to make a better choice. May we all do our best to please Allah. Alaahu Akbar

    • SubhanALLAH. I agree. Yes, many of the struggles that we have can be avoided and we do have ownership in our lives and what we do. And we can do better next time. I agree.


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